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The Lonely Soldier

The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq

Helen Benedict

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Beacon Press
01 September 2018
"The Lonely Soldier--the inspiration for the documentary The Invisible War--vividly

tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and

2006--and of the challenges they faced while fighting a war painfully

alone.

More American women have fought and died in Iraq than in any war since World War Two, yet as soldiers they are still painfully alone. In Iraq, only one in ten troops is a woman, and she often serves in a unit with few other women or none at all. This isolation, along with the military's deep-seated hostility toward women, causes problems that many female soldiers find as hard to cope with as war itself- degradation, sexual persecution by their comrades, and loneliness, instead of the camaraderie that every soldier depends on for comfort and survival. As one female soldier said, ""I ended up waging my own war against an enemy dressed in the same uniform as mine.""

In The Lonely Soldier, Benedict tells the stories of five women who fought in Iraq between 2003 and 2006. She follows them from their childhoods to their enlistments, then takes them through their training, to war and home again, all the while setting the war's events in context.

We meet Jen, white and from a working-class town in the heartland, who still shakes from her wartime traumas; Abbie, who rebelled against a household of liberal Democrats by enlisting in the National Guard; Mickiela, a Mexican American who grew up with a family entangled in L.A. gangs; Terris, an African American mother from D.C. whose childhood was torn by violence; and Eli PaintedCrow, who joined the military to follow Native American tradition and to escape a life of Faulknerian hardship. Between these stories, Benedict weaves those of the forty other Iraq War veterans she interviewed, illuminating the complex issues of war and misogyny, class, race, homophobia, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Each of these stories is unique, yet collectively they add up to a heartbreaking picture of the sacrifices women soldiers are making for this country.

Benedict ends by showing how these women came to face the truth of war and by offering suggestions for how the military can improve conditions for female soldiers-including distributing women more evenly throughout units and rejecting male recruits with records of violence against women. Humanizing, urgent, and powerful, The Lonely Soldier is a clarion call for change."

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Imprint:   Beacon Press
Country of Publication:   United States
Dimensions:   Height: 229mm,  Width: 152mm,  Spine: 18mm
Weight:   386g
ISBN:   9780807061497
ISBN 10:   0807061492
Pages:   280
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
One. The Lonely Soldier   PART ONE Before  Two. From Girl to Soldier: Life before the Military   Tthree. They Break You Down, Then Build You Back Up: Mickiela Montoya   Four. They Told Us We Were Going to Be Peacekeepers: Jennifer Spranger   Five. The Assault Was Just One Bad Person, but It Was a Turning Point for Me: Abbie Pickett   Six. These Morons Are Going to Get Us Killed: Terris Dewalt-Johnson   Seven. This War Is Full of Crazy People: Eli PaintedCrow   PART TWO War Eeight. It’s Pretty Much Just You and Your Rifle: Jennifer Spranger,   Nine. You’re Just Lying There Waiting to See Who’s Going to Die: Abbie Pickett, –   Ten. You Become Hollow, Like a Robot: Eli PaintedCrow,   Eleven. I Wasn’t Carrying the Knife for the Enemy, I Was Carrying It for the Guys on My Own Side: Mickiela Montoya,   Twelve. Mommy, Love You. Hope You Don’t Get Killed in Iraq: Terris Dewalt-Johnson, –   PART THREE After   Thirteen. Coming Home    Fourteen. Fixing the Future   Appendix a. Military Ranks and Organization Appendix b. Where to Find Help  Acknowledgments  Notes  Index

Helen Benedict, a professor of journalism at Columbia University, has written frequently on women, race, and justice. Her books includeVirgin or Vamp- How the Press Covers Sex Crimesand the novelsThe Opposite of Love, The Sailor's Wife, Bad Angel, andA World Like This. Her work on soldiers won the James Aronson Award for Social Justice Journalism.

Reviews for The Lonely Soldier: The Private War of Women Serving in Iraq

Benedict's book, filled with compelling and heartbreaking stories, is a groundbreaking testament to the bravery, resilience, and almost insurmountable obstacles faced by women stationed in Iraq.--Deirdre Sinnott, ForeWord Whether the soldiers' language is plainspoken or poetic, Helen Benedict's book gives them a place to tell their stories. . . . The Lonely Soldier has strong merit as an account of women's military experience in this long and reckless war. --Amy Herdy, Ms. Benedict's brilliant and compassionate reporting is neither left nor right--it's human. . . . You know these women--they are your mother, sister, cousin, daughter. Their stories of injustice in the U.S. military will tear your guts out. --Dale Maharidge, author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning And Their Children after Them The Lonely Soldier will shock you and enrage you and bring you to tears. It's must reading for everyone who cares about women, justice, fairness, the military, and the United States. --Katha Pollitt, award-winning columnist, The Nation A stunning chronicle of abuses suffered by women enlisted in the U.S. Army and serving in Iraq. --Los Angeles Times It is hard to determine what is most disturbing about this book--the devious and immoral tactics used by leaders and recruiters to get women to join the military, the terrible poverty and personal violence women were escaping that led them to be vulnerable to such manipulation, the raping and harassing of women soldiers by their superiors and comrades once they got to Iraq, or the untreated homelessness, illnesses, and madness that have haunted [these] women since they came home. . . . A crucial accounting of the shameful war on women who gave their bodies, lives, and souls for their country. --Eve Ensler, playwright, performer, activist, and author of The Vagina Monologues As a 29-year army and Army Reserve colonel, I urge everyone--especially women considering joining the U.S. military--to read this important book. Through unforgettable stories, The Lonely Soldier explains the shocking frequency of sexual assault and what can be done. --Army Reserve Colonel Ann Wright It is hard to determine what is most disturbing about this book--the devious and immoral tactics used by leaders and recruiters to get women to join the military, the terrible poverty and personal violence women were escaping that led them to be vulnerable to such manipulation, the raping and harassing of women soldiers by their superiors and comrades once they got to Iraq, or the untreated homelessness, illnesses, and madness that have haunted [these] women since they came home. The Lonely Soldier is an important book, a crucial accounting of the shameful war on women who gave their bodies, lives, and souls for their country. --Eve Ensler, playwright, performer, activist, and author of The Vagina Monologues It's outrageously immoral that our female soldiers have to fear many of the male soldiers they serve with, as well as being let down by the very Veterans Affairs system that's supposed to help them out. Thanks to Helen Benedict, the world is watching! --Roseanne Barr, Emmy Award-winning actor Once again, Helen Benedict reports what others sweep under the rug, and reveals a pattern where others see random events. The Lonely Soldier will shock you and enrage you and bring you to tears. It's must reading for everyone who cares about women, justice, fairness, the military, and the United States. --Katha Pollitt, award-winning columnist, the Nation The LonelySoldier tells an important and often ignored story about our military women. Benedict writes with skill and compassion, helping us understand what it feels like to be a women soldier in Iraq. I recommend this book to everyone who cares about our soldiers. --Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia and Seeking Peace No matter your politics, this book is vital. Helen Benedict's brilliant and compassionate reporting is neither left nor right--it's human. For a man reading The Lonely Soldier, you know these women--they are your mother, sister, cousin, daughter. Their stories of injustice in the U.S. military will tear your guts out. --Dale Maharidge, author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning And Their Children After Them As a 29-year Army and Army Reserve Colonel, I urge everyone--especially women considering joining the US military--to read this important book. Through unforgettable stories, The Lonely Soldier explains the shocking frequency of sexual assault and what can be done. --Army Reserve Colonel Ann Wright It is hard to determine what is most disturbing about this book-the devious and immoral tactics used by leaders and recruiters to get women to join the military, the terrible poverty and personal violence women were escaping that lead them to be vulnerable to such manipulation, the raping and harassing of women soldiers by their superiors and comrades once they got to Iraq, or the untreated homelessness, illnesses and madness that have haunted women since they came home. The Lonely Solider is an important book, a crucial accounting of the shameful war on women who gave their bodies, lives and souls for their country. --Eve Ensler, playwright, performer, activist and author of The Vagina Monologues It's outrageously immoral that our female soldiers have to fear many of the male soldiers they serve with, as well as being let down by the very Veterans Affairs system that's supposed to help them out. Thanks to Helen Benedict, the world is watching! --Roseanne Barr, Emmy Award-winning actor Once again, Helen Benedict reports what others sweep under the rug, and reveals a pattern where others see random events. The Lonely Soldier will shock you and enrage you and bring you to tears. It's must reading for everyone who cares about women, justice, fairness, the military, and the United States. --Katha Pollitt


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