As featured in The Guardian, How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes
is a clear, actionable, sometimes humorous (but always science-based)
guide for parents on how to shape their kids into honest, kind,
generous, confident, independent, and resilient people . . . who just might
save the world one day.
As an award-winning science
journalist, Melinda Wenner Moyer was regularly asked to investigate and
address all kinds of parenting questions: how to potty train, when and
whether to get vaccines, and how to help kids sleep through the night.
But as Melinda's children grew, she found that one huge area was ignored
in the realm of parenting advice: how do we make sure our kids don't
grow up to be assholes?
On social media, in the news, and from
the highest levels of government, kids are increasingly getting the
message that being selfish, obnoxious and cruel is okay. Hate crimes
among children and teens are rising, while compassion among teens has
been dropping. We know, of course, that young people have the capacity
for great empathy, resilience, and action, and we all want to bring up
kids who will help build a better tomorrow. But how do we actually do
this? How do we raise children who are kind, considerate, and ethical
inside and outside the home, who will grow into adults committed to
making the world a better place?
How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes
is a deeply researched, evidence-based primer that provides a fresh,
often surprising perspective on parenting issues, from toddlerhood
through the teenage years. First, Melinda outlines the traits we want
our children to possess - including honesty, generosity, and
antiracism - and then she provides scientifically-based strategies that
will help parents instill those characteristics in their kids. Learn how
to raise the kind of kids you actually want to hang out with-and who
just might save the world.