Circling The Wagons

As a survivor of sexual abuse myself, Circling the Wagons was both deeply validating and thought-provoking. Aldrick offers an unflinching look at the lifelong impact of childhood sexual abuse, particularly when it remains hidden within the family for decades. Her writing is raw and honest, offering survivors and their loved ones insight into the often complex and isolating healing process. The book resonated with me on many levels, especially in its exploration of trauma and the steps needed to reclaim one's life. Aldrick's willingness to share her experiences with such vulnerability is courageous and inspiring. Her inclusion of poetry throughout the book adds a beautiful, reflective element, offering moments of hope and solace amidst the heavy subject matter. What struck me most was the author's determination to shed light on intra-familial abuse and its silencing effects. At times, it felt as though Aldrick was not just sharing her story but issuing a call to society to acknowledge the devastating impacts of such trauma. While this intensity can be challenging, it underscores the urgency of her message and the importance of breaking the silence around these issues. As awareness grows, I hope her work is recognized for its decisive, necessary contribution. For survivors, family members, or anyone seeking to understand the impacts of childhood sexual abuse and the path to healing, Circling the Wagons is a poignant and essential read. Aldrick's voice reminds us that while the journey to healing is arduous, it is also filled with moments of strength, beauty, and profound resilience; Circling the Wagons is a courageous exploration of a child being harmed over time and the long-lasting impact of intrafamilial childhood sexual abuse into adulthood. I recognise the immense bravery it takes to document such painful truths under one's own name. The author interweaves poetry, imagery, analogies, definitions, educational content, and inspirational quotes with her story of lived experience. For anyone unsure about what intrafamilial childhood sexual abuse is, or was, the author has given her all: addressing the broader dynamics of family betrayal, intergenerational trauma, silence, and misplaced loyalty. The author highlights the lasting damage when a supposed protector prioritises silence over a child's safety. Her reflections on family dynamics and the hidden secrets that many families carry will resonate deeply with other survivors. The book's strength lies in its balance of raw honesty while not over-sharing, especially as the author acknowledges the long-term effects on her self-esteem, health, and relationships. A resource crafted from lived experience, Circling the Wagons offers survivors and their loved ones insight into the ways intrafamilial childhood sexual abuse arises, persists, and impacts those involved. The author's path, including her decision to go no contact with those who harmed, is a powerful reminder that reclaiming our power and our lives is a personal, necessary act of healing and self-love. Her advocacy is a testament to the strength she's reclaimed, and I commend her for speaking for those still finding their voice.