With so many social challenges facing our world, trying to effect change feels daunting. The problems are complex, the politics murky, and the players innumerable. Yet, every day there are regular heroes making a significant impact on our most intractable social issues.
“Can’t Not Do” is a catchphrase for the urge that captures the heart of effective social change agents—explaining, in their own words, their passion and drive: “I can’t not do this.” “It’s not that I can do this, it’s that I can’t not.” “I could not imagine not doing something about this issue.” The surprising truth from the trenches is: we already have numerous proven solutions for our many social challenges; what our world needs most, and what most changes our children’s future, are more people prepared and committed to act on their social impulses for the long haul. Innovation helps. Money helps, too. But greater numbers of committed people help the most.
If you feel an internal, persistent call to do more for the world, Can’t Not Do will help you to bridge the gap between “wanting to do” and “doing”—to access the drive of an effective change agent, to break through self-imposed barriers, to learn key principles for success, and to start seeing yourself acting as a change agent.
There is no “secret sauce” someone is born with and no special club needed to be successful at social change. Rather, successful change agents share some fundamental orientations to the world and to their committed cause and, over time, learn certain lessons that help them become more effective. These lessons are reflected in Can’t Not Do in seven seemingly simple questions that provide guideposts and unlock the reader’s potential to make a difference for a social cause they care about.
This isn’t a self-help book. It’s an inspiring narrative intertwined with a “street-readiness” dialogue, between the author and you, between you and your inner aspirations. These are authentic success stories, vital questions, and unconventional answers that can guide and inspire you to realize your greatest potential.
By:
Paul Shoemaker
Imprint: John Wiley & Sons Inc
Country of Publication: United States
Dimensions:
Height: 236mm,
Width: 161mm,
Spine: 20mm
Weight: 413g
ISBN: 9781119131595
ISBN 10: 1119131596
Pages: 224
Publication Date: 24 July 2015
Audience:
Professional and scholarly
,
Undergraduate
Format: Hardback
Publisher's Status: Active
Prologue: The Power of Can’t Not Do xi Introduction: Why Our Social Drives Matter More Now—Multipliers 1 Part I Finding Your Focus 13 Chapter 1 David Risher, the Lost Key, and Eradicating Illiteracy: Are You a Determined Optimist? 15 What’s the Point? 19 Haven’t Had That “Aha” Moment? 23 This Work Does Not Have to Be an Epic Endeavor 27 So What’s Mine? 29 Optimism + Determination 31 = Grit 34 Chapter 2 Lisa Chin Is Not Doing This to Be Happy: Who Are You at Your Core? 37 What’s the Point? 40 A Cause Connected to Your Core for Someone Else 42 The Right Time and Place 45 Putting Optimism to Work: 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 = 10 49 Chapter 3 Eleuthera Lisch, Stepping Out from Behind the Fourth Wall: Are You Willing to Go to Hard Places? 53 What’s the Point? 56 Some Hard Places Aren’t Places 59 What If You Have to Leave a Hard Place? 62 Failure Never Feels Good to Anyone, Including Me 64 Finding Meaning in a Hard Place 66 Part II How You Do This Work Well 69 Chapter 4 Jeff Tollefson, Losing It All and Becoming Richer: Are You Ready to Be Humble and Humbled? 71 What’s the Point? 75 Power (and Humility?) in Philanthropy 77 Humility Has Power 81 Your Mindset 84 Level 5 Leaders and Humility 85 My Own Lesson in Humility 86 Even the Great Are Humbled 88 Chapter 5 Lori, I Got Married a Little Too Early to the Right Woman: Can You Actively Listen? 91 Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood 91 What’s the Point? 93 Levels of Listening, Where Are You? 96 You Hear Interesting Things When You Listen 97 Chapter 6 Suzi Levine, Learning When Not to Raise Her Hand: Do You Believe 1 + 1 = 3? 103 What’s the Point? 106 1 + 1 = 3 with Connectors 108 Learning to Connect 109 Pacing the Floor Like an Expectant Father 111 Director or Connector? 114 Part III Bringing It All Together for Your World and You 117 Chapter 7 Heidi Breeze-Harris, a Sick Pregnant Lady with an Idea: What Is Your Can’t Not Do? 119 What’s the Point? 124 A Different Kind of Career Dedicated to “Can’t Not Do” 125 Can’t Not Do for Others 126 Can’t Not Do Takes Time, A Long Time 129 What Is It in Your Life That You Can’t Not Do? 130 Chapter 8 Why Your Social Drives Matter More Now: The Equation 133 The Equation 135 What’s Possible 137 Conclusion Surrendering to the Intention 141 A Meaningful versus a Happy Life 142 Start the Journey 146 My Family, Where It All Starts . . . and Ends 146 Appendix Introduction 149 Appendix 1 20 Questions for a Personal Checklist: Finding Your Focus 151 Appendix 2 20 Suggestions for a Personal Checklist: How You Do This Work Well 157 Appendix 3 Which Stories Fit You Best? 161 Appendix 4 Additional Resources for Getting Started: SVP Stuff, Books, Websites, and Blogs 163 Appendix 5 Chapter-by-Chapter Summary 167 Notes 175 About the Author 181 Acknowledgments 183 Index 187
"If you're out to change the world, PAUL SHOEMAKER is there to connect you to people, ideas, and organizations that matter. Shoemaker is the Founding President of Social Venture Partners Internationala global network of thousands of social entrepreneurs, philanthropists, and business and community leaders in 39 cities and 8 countries. With insights from 17 years of this unique vantage point, he is a global thought leader on how individuals can be effective social change agents. In 2011 and 2012, Shoemaker was named one of the ""Top 50 Most Influential People in the Nonprofit Sector"" by The NonProfit Times."
