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In her debut memoir, Marianne Benz shares the hard-fought wisdom acquired, and the surprising joys uncovered, in her lived experiences with her grandmother and mother, to encourage those struggling alongside a loved one with dementia. A Cincinnati native, she moved to Atlanta in the late nineties with her husband and three sons, where most of this story takes place. Marianne is a member of the Atlanta Writers Club and The Authors Guild.
"Thoughtful research and beautifully examined emotions offer a full, compelling view of Alzheimer's. The author opens her narrative by challenging readers to reconsider what they see when looking at a ""beloved stranger,"" her affecting term for a loved one who has been afflicted with Alzheimer's. For Benz, her mother's diagnoses-first mild cognitive impairment in 2008, and then Alzheimer's a year later-were the latest in a series of gut punches to the family. ""Generations of Alzheimer's runs through my blood,"" the author writes, describing how her grandmother, whom she called Ma, succumbed to the disease. Benz writes in an understated but powerful voice as she thoroughly examines the effects of Alzheimer's from all angles, acknowledging the absurdity and even occasional moments of humor in dealing with a loved one caught in what she calls the ""otherworldly 'dementia dimension.'"" In describing her own emotional state, Benz crafts some truly beautiful turns of phrase: ""Dust and dirt were spinning around us in a cataclysmic vacuum of struggle and loss,"" she writes. ""But, occasionally, the sun's rays broke through."" The author's extensive research into the disease gives her great authority when discussing it. Her narrative is filled with quiet, simple moments that she imbues with profound meaning, such as simply looking up from a sandwich to see her mother smile, leading the author to vow to be more present and better honor the life in front of her-something she has certainly done with this work. - Kirkus Reviews"
