With Love from a Children's Therapist

""Powerful. Heartfelt. Eye-opening. Stacy takes readers on a profound journey through trauma and healing, bravely sharing her own pain-filled story alongside the stories of her clients. With the wisdom of a seasoned therapist, she weaves together insights and reflections that not only deepen our understanding of trauma but also illuminate the resilience and empowerment that emerge from it. She fearlessly addresses the topics we often shy away from, bringing them into the light with compassion and clarity. This book will touch your heart, bring tears to your eyes, and offer a raw, lived experience of trauma-far beyond the pages of a textbook.""-Lisa Dion, LPC, RPT-S, president of Synergetic Play Therapy Institute, creator of Synergetic Play Therapy ""In With Love from a Children's Therapist, Stacy Schaffer writes from the heart for the heart. In her book, Schaffer describes story after story of the power of earned security, which is an attachment concept to describe how finding healing after trauma can occur when we find our 'birthday candles'-with those who provide a sense of safety and trust in our lives, which take place in relationships throughout our lives. Schaffer interweaves stories of her own healing while discussing difficult topics and concepts, and does so in an approachable, easy-to-understand manner. Her love for her clinical work shines through as does her humor and knowledge.""-Clair Mellenthin, PhD, RPT-S, creator of Attachment Centered Play Therapy ""In a powerful and poignant blend of telling her own story and the stories of kids in her office, Stacy Schaffer illuminates important truths about vulnerability, healing, and resilience for all ages. Hitting directly on real things that kids and grown-ups struggle with, With Love from a Children's Therapist will help parents feel more resourced in supporting their kids, it will help individuals of all ages own and honor their stories in meaningful ways, and it will help all of us open up to the power of healing, honesty, and community in our fragmented world.""-Kathy Escobar, cofounder of The Refuge and author of Practicing: Changing Yourself to Change the World ""More important than education is lived experience. When you have both-guiding you through a book or a therapy session-you have With Love from a Children's Therapist. Stacy uses her personal narrative to highlight the trials and triumphs so many of us face. This book is a combination of professional insight and profound wisdom and will enlighten every parent or provider who finds themselves within the pages.""-Stephanie Hanrahan, author, autism activist, and founder of the viral online community Tinkles Her Pants ""I have had the pleasure of knowing and working alongside Ms. Schaffer for over ten years, and I can confidently say that she is an exceptional mental health specialist. Using her own life experiences, Ms. Schaffer has a unique ability to relate to and form meaningful connections with her young patients. Her insight and empathy allow her to truly understand their challenges, enabling her to provide tailored support that addresses their specific needs. The blend of her personal experiences and professional expertise clearly sets her apart, making her a highly trusted and recommended therapist. Her book, With Love from a Children's Therapist, offers valuable insight into pediatric mental health as well. I highly recommend her book.""-Veena Mathad, MD, pediatrician, owner of Sunflower Pediatrics