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To Have or To Hold

Nature's Hidden Relationships

Sophie Pavelle

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English
Bloomsbury Wildlife
01 July 2025
LONGLISTED FOR THE WAINWRIGHT PRIZE FOR CONSERVATION WRITING A BBC WILDLIFE BEST BOOK OF 2025

A thrilling exploration of nature’s symbiotic relationships by the award-winning author of Forget Me Not.

What can nature teach us about living together? Investigating eight symbiotic relationships trying to survive the climate and biodiversity crises, Sophie Pavelle explains why it has never been more vital for us to understand symbiosis. Symbiotic relationships regulate ecosystems, strengthen resilience and bind pivotal connections, and nature thrives on relationships as glamorous as they are grotesque and as bizarre as they are engrossing.

Symbiotic relationships don't happen accidentally – these dynamics evolved – and species form and sever alliances everywhere, from deep within temperate rainforests to the open ocean, quiet tidal pools or chalk grasslands.

In To Have or To Hold, Sophie low-carbon travels in the British Isles relishing the interconnectedness between species, celebrating the relationships underpinning natural environments and sharing some of nature’s frauds, fortune-tellers, misfits and cheaters.

The natural world is built on parasitism, a cunning blend of bargaining and exploitation in the name of survival. In our relationship with the natural world, are we the parasites? Will we continue to exploit nature’s resources? Or will we vow to love and cherish what remains – shaping a more restorative life alongside nature – till death us do part?
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Imprint:   Bloomsbury Wildlife
Country of Publication:   United Kingdom
Dimensions:   Height: 236mm,  Width: 158mm,  Spine: 38mm
Weight:   543g
ISBN:   9781399412162
ISBN 10:   1399412167
Pages:   336
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Hardback
Publisher's Status:   Active
PROLOGUE Me, the Moon Relationship status: unrequited 1 + 1 = 1 The Mint Sauce Worm + Green Algae = Animalgae Relationship Status: rather not say Misfits The Ocean Sunfish (and others) Relationship Status: friends with benefits The Trojan Horse The Shore Crab and The Barnacle Relationship Status: just seeing each other A Cad and A Bounder The Early Spider Orchid and the Buffish Mining Bee Relationship Status: it’s complicated Killing Me Softly The Aspen, The Aspen Bracket Fungus and The Aspen Hoverfly Relationship Status: situationship The Sleeper Agent The Lungwort Lichen Relationship status: throuple All Rise The Horsehair Worm (insert host here) Relationship status: unhinged Terms & Conditions The Colony (of the Narrow-Headed Ant) Relationship status: frenemies EPILOGUE The One-hit Wonder? Relationship status: working on it

Sophie Pavelle is a US-born and UK-based science communicator. She worked for Beaver Trust and presented their award-winning documentary Beavers Without Borders. She is an Ambassador for The Wildlife Trusts and sat on the RSPB England Advisory Committee. Her writing has appeared in The Guardian, National Geographic Traveller, New Scientist, The Independent and BBC magazines. Her first book, Forget Me Not, was widely praised for encouraging action against climate change and biodiversity loss.

Reviews for To Have or To Hold: Nature's Hidden Relationships

“A terrific book; heavyweight and serious without ever losing its lightness of touch. It pulses with energy, perception and passion for the living world – and for the lessons and wonder it holds. With symbiosis as its focus, it takes the reader on a vivid journey into the complex, beautiful life-worlds of sunfish, lungwort lichen and the 'luminous republic' of aspen woodlands.” * Robert Macfarlane, author of Underland * “This miraculous book completely blindsided me. I raced through its pages as though I was reading a beautifully written thriller, all the while learning so much about things I never knew existed. Scholarly and funny, To Have or To Hold is breathtaking and compulsive reading. It is a masterpiece, and a paeon of praise for the intricate nature of life.” * Joanna Lumley * ""Joyful, hilarious and energetic, To Have or To Hold is filled with infectious enthusiasm for life in all its strange wonders. Much of modern nature writing focuses on individual species; Pavelle shows us that it is the relationships between them that really matter. From mint-sauce worms to tree lungwort, from parasites to symbiotic throuples, this is a glorious guide to coupling in the animal, plant and fungal kingdoms."" * Guy Shrubsole, author of The Lie of the Land and The Lost Rainforests of Britain * “A beautiful and fascinating exploration of a crucial subject – symbiosis – that will help you to see the world in a new light. This book is lucid, uplifting and delightful.” * George Monbiot, author of Feral and Regenesis * “Mastering her unique style of drawing the reader, conspiratorially, into her research, Sophie Pavelle takes us on a deep and brave dive to the heart of the world's precarious and delicate balance. Showing us ""the things we could do"" to redress and reverse humanity's negative impact on our natural world, her voice is strong and true and imperative to our times.” * Manni Coe, co-author of brother. do. you. love. me. * “Pavelle writes so vitally about nature, offering astonishing insight and hope. To Have or To Hold is an essential tale of the ultimate symbiotic relationship, between human beings and the natural world we rely on and threaten to destroy. Encompassing life and death, eradication and hope, this is a book I will press into the hands of loved ones.” * Charlotte Philby, author of The End of Summer * “This profoundly significant book is a sumptuous, gorgeous coupling of intelligence and humour, of chutzpah and tenderness.” * Jay Griffiths, author of Wild - An Elemental Journey * ""A near-psychedelic tour through the mysteries and wonders of nature’s symbiotic relationships. Travelling around the British Isles (via low-carbon methods only, of course), Pavelle reveals species and connections most of us will never have heard of – but which hold lessons for us all."" * Chantal Lyons, author of Groundbreakers * A clarion call for our own species to rediscover its vital relationship with nature. * National Geographic Traveller *


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