The parameter s of Traditional Nuäär Marriage

The Parameters of a Traditional Nuäär Marriage The book, The Parameters of a Traditional Nuäär Marriage is an elaborate thesis on the lives of the Nuäär People focusing on their customs, traditions and beliefs regarding marriage in particular, and about life in general. The author, Dr. James Mabor, has comprehensively yet painstakingly explained all stages of marriage within the Nuäär culture and its subcultures, including pre and post marriage rituals, bride-wealth and pre-set conditions, cultural expectations, rights and responsibilities of the bride, groom and their respective families. The book emphasizes that for the Nuäär, marriage is more than just a union of two individuals, it is a merger of two families. It expands the family circle and elevates the social status of a couple. The rich wedding celebrations are entertaining and exciting for everyone involved and deeply meaningful for the families of the bride and groom. In less than 200 pages, the book covers very intricate details surrounding bride-wealth, marriage negotiations and the subsequent celebratory customs. However, some sections of the book are not for the faint-hearted as it explores and delves deep into the cultural practices, which may appear painful and spine-chilling for readers without a full contextual understanding. Surely, the author has presented such sensitive information with extreme care whilst providing context to each cultural practice. The significance of Bride-wealth in terms of cattle value is explained in detail with reference to each marriage type. Although traditionally monogamous, polygamy is also not uncommon among the Nuäär. Exogamy, polygyny, levirate, woman-to-woman marriage, ghost marriage and concubinage are other kinds of relationships that are detailed as practised. The author explains the different circumstances leading to each marriage type and the consequences thereof. In particular, he provides an understanding of the legitimacy of concubinage, woman to woman and ghost marriages in Nuäär culture. Furthermore, the author also explains how the war of independence which resulted in the displacement of the Nuäär People influenced their traditions and customs including those associated with marriage. Undeniably, this book will prove to be an incredibly dense source of authentic knowledge for the Nuäär diaspora, social scientists and the general public alike.