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The Mother

A Graphic Memoir

Rachel Deutsch

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Douglas & McIntyre
01 September 2025
'This is a truly beautiful and special book.'

Emily Oster, author of Expecting Better and Cribsheet

'Searching, honest, funny, and beautiful.'

Rachel Yoder, author of Nightbitch

""I laugh-sobbed my way through The Mother, so loudly my children came to check on me.'

Angela Garbes, author of Essential Labor and Like a Mother

In this hilarious and harrowingly honest graphic memoir,New Yorker cartoonist Rachel Deutsch, aka @weirdmomart on Instagram, shares the story of her journey into motherhood.

Rachel Deutsch had always wanted a baby. She wanted to press her face into theirs and feed them from her body. Eventually her child might hate her a little. But they'd be on speaking terms most of the time. Wait...or was that just Rachel's experience with her mum? Had she processed her own childhood enough to raise a child herself!?

The Mother is about the constant dualities and contradictions of motherhood. The collision of future Rachel and past Rachel. Desperately wanting to get pregnant while fearful of being pregnant. Loving a new identity while missing an old one. Celebrating a new family while mourning the previous incarnation of a partnership.

Funny, provocative, and unabashedly candid, Deutsch's memoir embraces both the joys and the challenges of modern parenthood in a way that will resonate with new and seasoned parents.
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Imprint:   Douglas & McIntyre
Country of Publication:   Canada
Dimensions:   Height: 178mm,  Width: 254mm,  Spine: 13mm
ISBN:   9781771624329
ISBN 10:   1771624329
Pages:   160
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Rachel Deutsch's writing, cartoons and illustrations have appeared in publications includingThe New Yorker,PRISM,The Pinch, McSweeney's, Mother Tongue, Mutha Magazineand inParentData, the popular newsletter by Emily Oster, the author ofExpecting Better. Deutsch is known for bringing honesty and humour to tough parenting moments. She lives in Montreal with her partner and two young kids, and posts regularly on Instagram as @weirdmomart.

Reviews for The Mother: A Graphic Memoir

Praise for The Mother: ""Deutsch pays blisteringly honest and acidly funny homage to the temporary hell that is brand-new parenting. . . . A balm to new parents who find themselves utterly upended by the initially mixed blessing that is the blessed event."" --Shelf Awareness, STARRED REVIEW ""Deutsch's story is by turns lyrical, vulnerable, and circumspect. Her illustrations are vibrant and unexpected, and the book is full of touching and amusing moments. . . . A tender ode to new motherhood."" --Kirkus Reviews ""New Yorker cartoonist Deutsch picks at the emotional tangle of new parenthood. . . . Parents will find plenty here that's painfully familiar.""--Publishers Weekly ""Deutsch is relentlessly honest about her experience."" --New York Journal of Books ""This is a truly beautiful and special book. I laughed, and I cried.""--Emily Oster, author of Expecting Better and Cribsheet ""Searching, honest, funny and beautiful, The Mother charts a relatable journey from desperately-seeking single to the early awe of motherhood, examining along the way the parental relationships that shaped us as well as the trials and triumphs of procreative partnership. I laughed out loud. I cried. I loved loved loved this book, and you will, too."" --Rachel Yoder, author of Nightbitch ""I laugh-sobbed my way through The Mother, so loudly my children came to check on me. Rachel Deutsch's drawings are tender and absurd, capturing the total joy and humiliation of living in a body that distends and deflates to create another body. What I love most, though, is the truth Deutsch lays beautifully bare: that becoming a mother exposes all the vulnerabilities of childhood, requiring us to parent ourselves, too."" --Angela Garbes, author of Essential Labor and Like a Mother ""A hilarious and honest tale of navigating the road to parenthood and readjusting to the new baby life!"" --Lucy Knisley, author of Go to Sleep (I Miss You) and Kid Gloves ""Rachel Deutsch dazzles in The Mother, giving us the very specific story of her matrescence, but somehow making it universal to all mothers. It is at once hilarious, heartbreaking, weird, and wonderful--capturing the delicate high-wire act of becoming a mom without losing yourself. Honest, profound, and slightly unhinged: this is new motherhood on full display."" --Teresa Wong, author of Dear Scarlet and All Our Ordinary Stories ""Equal parts moving, funny, sad, and poignant, this book feels like a deep conversation with a wonderfully smart, open friend (who also has a fabulously creative brain and a very unique perspective). Rachel's witty metaphors and expressive drawings made me laugh and feel less alone in the weirdness and discomfort that is being a human being and a mother. I can't wait for other moms to read this book--I'm sure they'll devour it just like I did!"" --Mary Catherine Starr, author of Mama Needs a Minute! and creator of @momlife_comics ""Oh how I loved this. Profound, candid and wonderfully witty, The Mother is a tender self-reflection about the tumbling journey through early motherhood. You will find yourself on every page. This is the motherhood companion we need.""--Ashley Audrain, author of The Push and The Whisper ""Rejoice! Rachel Deutsch's The Mother is the graphic memoir parents and potential parents have been waiting for. Between poignant images capturing the absurdity and magic of pregnancy and mothering, we witness the re-creation of self in the face of procreation; the nurturing of one's inner child while breastfeeding one's newborn. Not one page was turned without me snorting in laughter or clutching at my heart."" --Catherine Hernandez, author and screenwriter of Scarborough Praise for Rachel Deutsch: ""The hilarious Rachel Deutsch . . . loves exploring the absurdities, pain, and joys of parenthood."" --Cup of Jo ""[Deutsch] captures both the absurdity and the wonder of parenthood."" --HuffPost


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