Virginia was raised on dairy farm with her four brothers, mother, father and paternal grandmother. She has a BA from Belmont College with a major in Psychology and minor in Sociology. She has been married to Tom Stokes for over 53 years and together they have served churches in the state of Kentucky. Tom retired in 2015 from full-time ministry. For nine years they served six churches as Transitional/Interim pastor and wife. They have made their home in Bowling Green, Kentucky. God blessed them with two children, son David and wife Gretchen and daughter, Debra. Virginia retired in 2017 as a full time Social Worker/Case Manager and presently is working part-time as Administrator of an Adult Day Care.