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The Emotionally Abusive Husband

Its Effects and How to Overcome Them in Christ

Anne Dryburgh

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English
Illumine Press
11 October 2022
In this her second book in the Overcoming Emotional Abuse series, Dr. Anne Dryburgh provides a practical and thoroughly biblical resource to use when counseling Christian women who are being treated in an emotionally abusive manner by their husbands. Questions have been added at the end of the first three chapters and are designed for the emotionally abused woman as she seeks to know the Lord and apply the principles suggested in the book. Those counselling such women will also find the questions helpful.

From the Foreword

'The Emotionally Abusive Husband' is a tremendous, short book that reveals the depravity of man in a marriage relationship that has gone bad, but gives the hope of the Gospel that Christ can save us from our sins and transform our lives! Recently, this book had been used mightily in my family's lives. Thank you, Dr Dryburgh, for another compelling work! - Johnny Touchet, pastor and missionary, and founder of Partner 10:15 ministries

How this book can help you

The purpose of this book is to provide a resource to use when counseling Christian women who are being treated in an emotionally abusive manner by their husbands. It does not cover physical or sexual abuse in marriage and it assumes that the position of headship is one of authority. I take the view that in practice headship refers to a husband laying down his life for his wife, not laying down the law. As a result, like the response of the Church to Christ's sacrifice, a wife is more likely to respond to a husband's lead when she sees his love and sacrifice for her. Questions have also been added at the end of the first three chapters; these are designed for the emotionally abused woman as she seeks to know the Lord and apply the principles suggested in the book. Those counselling such women will also find the questions helpful.

What this book is not

A word of caution is necessary. Abusive situations are gravely serious. While insights have been suggested in this book, it is not the definitive answer about how to help abused women. It touches on subjects that are tremendously complicated and where time is needed to address these areas in an in-depth manner to be able to effectively help people. Well-intentioned but unwise advice can cause suffering and damage lives. Wisdom and insight are required on a case-by-case basis. There are no standard cut-and-dried answers, as someone said, 'one size does not fit all.'

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Imprint:   Illumine Press
Country of Publication:   United Kingdom
Volume:   2
Dimensions:   Height: 178mm,  Width: 108mm,  Spine: 84mm
Weight:   119g
ISBN:   9781739871994
ISBN 10:   1739871995
Series:   Overcoming Emotional Abuse
Pages:   154
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Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Anne Dryburgh, Ph.D., is a biblical counselor certified by the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC), the International Association of Biblical Counselors (IABC), and The Addiction Connection, a collective of biblical counselors and ministries united for the purpose of training and equipping the Body of Christ in biblically helping addicts and their loved ones. She has been a missionary with Echoes International in Flemish-speaking Belgium since the 1990s and partners with a number of biblical counseling organizations. She is the author of the Overcoming Emotional Abuse series.

Reviews for The Emotionally Abusive Husband: Its Effects and How to Overcome Them in Christ

Well-balanced, biblically sound, and user-friendly. A practical tool that avoids extremes to determine the possible status of abuse. Every biblically oriented counselor needs to have this book available. Anne provides direction to further additional dependable biblical resources to assist with addressing the issue of abuse - Dr. Howard Eyrich Anne addresses one of the most overlooked sin issues in her book and uses her vast experience in discipleship and biblical counseling to minister to women broken by emotionally abusive marriages. The book is designed to provide biblical insights for women who are struggling in emotionally abusive relationships and for the churches that want to help them...I look forward to using this book with my counselees - Shannon Kay McCoy, MABC, ACBC Emotional abuse can often seem to be a vague concept, but in her book, Anne gives a clear definition and description. She also provides specific ways for the victim to understand what's happening and how to respond biblically. Anne also describes how the church can counsel and intervene in ways that are compassionate and helpful - both to the wife who's being abused and to the husband in a way that offers opportunity for repentance and change. A very helpful book for biblical counselors - Don Roy, D.Min Training Center Director Here is a resource that seeks to restore dignity to abused women through total immersion in relevant scriptural truths. 'The Emotionally Abusive Husband' is an easy and essential read for those wanting to walk alongside wives who have been abused. I love how Anne helps the reader see that courageously changing the way a woman thinks about and responds to the abuse of her husband provides a potential opportunity for his dignity and worth to also be restored - Jane Kratz, Pastoral Care Counsellor People present us with many challenging situations. All of which require a theological understanding and applying biblical wisdom. The unloving and ungodly interaction between husband and wife is no exception and I am thankful for Anne providing us with a much-needed resource for helping us navigate this especially challenging situation in a God-glorifying way - Dr Andrew D. Rogers Helping women in abusive situations is one of the responsibilities of the local church. As Christians, we need to be equipped to know how to help. It was helpful to read a female perspective on an issue where husbands, church leaders, and brothers in Christ, need to do so much more. This book is an excellent resource to think through the subject Biblically, so that we can be better informed and more fully equipped to offer God-honoring support - Alasdair McPherson, Bible teacher


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