Susan Friedland author of Horses Adored and Men Endured, a horse lover's dating memoir
I know the pain of the loss will never go away...but I loved him, so that's okay. I see my grief is a tribute to him and how awesome he was. Strands of Hope is full of tips on how to help yourself through the grieving process when you lose your horse. Some of it would have been very helpful back then, and some of it is still helpful now. It's broken into chapters based around different methods of coping and healing. It's very easy and quick to read.I happen to be a big believer in mementos and photographs, so I have that chapter more than covered. It actually makes me feel better to look at a photo of him or see that ribbon I won on him. It reminds me of how special he was and how special our relationship was. . . The most helpful part of Susan's book was reading about the loss of DC and what he meant to her. As well as reading all the stories from other equestrians on their own losses. For me, reading about others that lost similarly (and differently) to what I lost was really and truly helpful. Each of those stories made me cry, but they also made me feel like I wasn't alone. . . I think this book is an excellent resource and I appreciate Susan's writing style. I highly recommend Strands of Hope. I also love her other (much less serious) book Horses Adored and Men Endured. Rachel Masen of @decidedlyequestrian