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Secret Women

What we Hide and Why

Vanessa Holburn Sam Beckinsale Susan Gonzalez Laura London

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English
River Light press
22 January 2026
Why do some women either have to, or choose to, live secret lives? We all have secrets, but what drives these women to hide part of themselves from others? This book explores the hidden lives of a diverse group of women who operate with a degree of subterfuge, mystery or deliberate deception. From Freemasonry to fetishism, from witches to activists and survivors, the reasons for secrecy are as different as the women themselves. Together, they represent a rich tapestry of female experience, sensitively recounted by the author as she delves into each woman’s secret.
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Imprint:   River Light press
Country of Publication:   United Kingdom
Dimensions:   Height: 198mm,  Width: 129mm,  Spine: 20mm
ISBN:   9781068467400
ISBN 10:   1068467401
Pages:   212
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Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Introduction vii SECTION 1: ACTIVISM AND CAMPAIGNS Chapter 1: The Afghan Rebels 15 Chapter 2: Voices for the Animals 25 Chapter 3: Child Sexual Abuse and Domestic Abuse Campaigners 35 Chapter 4: The Sexual Assault Survivor 53 SECTION 2: WORK AND SELF-DEVELOPMENT Chapter 5: Wartime Bombe Operator 63 Chapter 6: Private Investigators and Mystery Shopping 71 Chapter 7: The Magic Circle and Freemasonry 79 Chapter 8: Adult Content and the Professional Mistress 89 SECTION 3: PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS Chapter 9: Lesbian Lives 103 Chapter 10: Secret Love Affairs 113 Chapter 11: Kink and Fetish Relationships 125 Chapter 12: Hypersexuality as a result of Incest 135 SECTION 4: BEING YOURSELF Chapter 13: Witchcraft and the Occult 149 Chapter 14: Neo-Shamanism 157 Chapter 15: ADHD and Mental Health 165 Chapter 16: Weight-loss Jabs 183 Conclusion 195 Further resources 201

Vanessa is an author and journalist with over 30 years of industry experience across consumer and trade press, digital media and communication agencies. This is Vanessa’s sixth non-fiction book. Her titles typically cover historical and modern day political and feminist topics, and she was recently part of a law-changing campaign that took her to Number 10. Vanessa’s written work has appeared in national newspapers including The Telegraph, The Daily Express, The Mirror and The Sun, and in magazines such as Private Eye, Fabulous, Bella, Woman’s Own, The Jewish Chronicle, Yours, Dogs Today, Ask The Doctor and Running Fitness. She has appeared on radio and television, and spoken on podcasts and at literary festivals, libraries, universities and museums. Vanessa lives in Berkshire with her family and a trio of rescue pets.

Reviews for Secret Women: What we Hide and Why

“Vanessa Holburn’s Secret Women is a profoundly humane and revelatory work that gives voice to women whose truths have too often been silenced. With journalistic precision and deep empathy, Holburn unearths the hidden lives of women across continents and generations, showing how secrecy can be both shield and shackle. What makes this book unique is its balance of courage and compassion; each story illuminates not only survival but solidarity. In a moment when women’s autonomy and safety remain globally contested, this book could save lives and sanity alike. Every educator, policymaker, therapist, and ally should read it, then listen harder.” — Sarah Tucker, best-selling author, journalist and broadcaster “Secrets can be terrifying, protective, comforting and often deeply complex. For many women, they’re also shaped by shame, trauma, and the fear of being truly seen and what the repercussions might be. Secret Women creates a safe space for these hidden truths to come into the light. As a clinical psychologist, I know how liberating it can be when silence is transformed. This book offers that liberation with tenderness and courage.” –Dr Marianne Trent, Clinical Psychologist “A fascinating journey captivating women’s psyche through bold, compelling and deeply relatable case studies, why we keep secrets, what kinds we keep and which ones keep us. Impeccably written, deeply investigative and profoundly honest. Vanessa Holburn holds up a mirror in which every woman will see herself, in one secret or two.” — Rose Sgueglia, Author, Journalist and Researcher “I’m so glad someone has written this book! It’s both tantalising and important. If you’ve ever wondered about the secrets uncovered by activists, spies, private detectives, magicians and even female freemasons (yes, they do exist) read Vanessa Holburn’s fascinating new book – a book which also gives a voice to those who’ve previously been silenced. Secret Women opens up an intriguing world of female empowerment.” –Lucinda Hawksley, author. “A stunning book that doesn’t just reveal hidden stories — it spotlights the culture that forces women to hide them in the first place.” — Issy Vine, Speak Up Now UK


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