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One Bad Mother

In Praise of Psycho Housewives, Stage Parents, Momfluencers, and Other Women We Love to Hate...

Ej Dickson

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Simon & Schuster
31 March 2026
‘Smart, spiky, and straight-up necessary, One Bad Mother undresses the landmined label ‘bad mum’ with wit and receipts. Ej Dickson turns our favorite moral panics into a clear-eyed invitation to ditch impossible standards and parent like a person.’ Amanda Montell, NYT-bestselling author of Wordslut, Cultish, and The Age of Magical Overthinking

We all have an idea what it means to be a good mum: little screen time, kids hitting (or beating) their milestones, endless patience and understanding and self-sacrifice on behalf of one’s children. But what does it mean to be a 'bad mum' in modern society? Women as wide-ranging as Meghan Markle, Hannah Neelman (of Ballerina Farm), or anyone giving birth over 40, have been given labels as a 'bad mum.' In a world where the rules are constantly changing, it feels like women simply cannot win.

With this notion in mind, in her first book, Ej Dickson takes a sharp, provocative look at one of society’s most polarising labels: the ‘bad mum.’ What makes a mother 'bad,' and what are the cultural stakes of that judgment? Through the lens of pop culture and American history, Ej Dickson explores how this trope has evolved – from Victorian ‘angels in the house’ to the infamous Mommie Dearest, from Instagram influencers like EmRata and Mormon mumfluencers to fictional icons like The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.

Each chapter dives into a different archetype of so-called bad motherhood – like the Stage Mum, the Tiger Mum, the MILF, the MLM hun – challenging readers to rethink their assumptions about femininity, parenting, and societal expectations. Drawing on insightful analysis and interviews, Dickson unpacks why our culture is obsessed with vilifying mums and how issues of race and class shape these narratives. Are bad mums truly ‘bad,’ or do they simply defy norms we don’t fully understand – or fear?

But don’t mistake this as just a pop culture analysis. To actually make women stop feeling like they’re bad mums and start actually enjoying the experience of motherhood, it’s important to deconstruct the trope and actually learn about where it comes from, what purpose it serves, and the insidious ways it continues to pop up in popular culture to this day. Because if we really take a close look, we might find that some of the women we’ve reviled throughout history aren’t actually that bad after all – and in doing so, mums today may take some much-needed pressure off themselves.

In tackling these urgent questions, One Bad Mother exposes the deeper forces driving our fascination with bad mom culture and reveals what it says about our world today.

Thoughtful, eye-opening, and downright funny at times, One Bad Mother is a vital exploration of modern motherhood.
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Imprint:   Simon & Schuster
Country of Publication:   United States
Edition:   Local Edition
Dimensions:   Height: 5,944mm,  Width: 3,886mm,  Spine: 22mm
Weight:   333g
ISBN:   9781668242315
ISBN 10:   1668242311
Pages:   352
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Forthcoming

Ej Dickson is a senior writer at New York magazine’s The Cut. She previously worked as a senior writer for Rolling Stone and her writing has also been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, GQ, Elle, and many others. She lives with her family in Brooklyn, New York. Visit EjDickson.com for more information.

Reviews for One Bad Mother: In Praise of Psycho Housewives, Stage Parents, Momfluencers, and Other Women We Love to Hate

“Smart, spiky, and straight-up necessary, One Bad Mother undresses the landmined label ‘bad mom’ with wit and receipts. Ej Dickson turns our favorite moral panics into a clear-eyed invitation to ditch impossible standards and parent like a person.” -Amanda Montell, NYT-bestselling author of Wordslut, Cultish, and The Age of Magical Overthinking ""One Bad Mother is brilliant, razor-sharp, and hilarious. It will completely transform your views of motherhood. It's deeply researched and insightful, and expertly dismantles the idea of the ""perfect mom."" Dickson mixes real stories, pop culture, and smart commentary in a way that feels revealing but totally relatable. She writes with heart, wit, and a kind of honesty that feels like talking to your smartest, funniest, most insightful friend. This book is perfect for any mother, father, soon-to-be parent, or reader with an interest in our cultural views on motherhood. I cannot recommend this book highly enough!"" -Taylor Lorenz, journalist and bestselling author of Extremely Online ""This laugh-out-loud hilarious and timely book takes its readers on a memorable romp through pop cultural history. Dickson is never less than wildly entertaining, even as she makes a frank, heartfelt and wholly original argument as to why it's nearly impossible to be a ""good mom"" in America today."" -Emily Gould, features writer at New York and author of And The Heart Says Whatever, Friendship, and Perfect Tunes ""In One Bad Mother, Ej Dickson bravely dares to suggest that mothers are . . . people. People who, despite undergoing the identity shift that attends motherhood, do not willingly go gentle into the good night of nonsensical binaries and maternal mandates. The notion that there's such a thing as a Good Mother or a Bad Mother is hilarious indeed, and Dickson underscores her razor sharp critiques of various forms of mommy propaganda with wit, nuance, and vulnerability. I am a Good Bad mom and I loved this book."" -Sara Petersen, author of Momfluenced: Inside the Maddening, Picture-Perfect World of Mommy Influencer Culture! ""A fascinating exploration of the ways women are portrayed in pop culture. Dickson challenges our expectations of mothers and motherhood."" -Fortesa Latifi, journalist and author of forthcoming Like, Follow, Subscribe  ""Brilliant, hilarious, and beautifully vulnerable, One Bad Mother will make you rethink your feelings about your own mom, your own mothering, and even your distaste for trad wives and Kris Jenner. I can't count the times I cried, only to crack up a sentence later and wonder how she knows so much about Joan Crawford."" -Jessica Machado, author and senior editor at NBC News ""I was never going to be a mom, but thanks to Ej Dickson’s One Bad Mother, even a blissfully childfree guy like me can gain some fresh, hilarious, piercing insight into what it means to fill that role. From the bottomless guilt to the petty rivalries, this is a book that stares down contemporary motherhood, with all its contradictions, and doesn’t break eye contact. You’ll want to thank (or forgive) your own mom as soon as you’re finished.""  -Miles Klee, culture writer at Rolling Stone and author of True/False and Ivyland ""A humorous and potent takedown of the criticism awaiting mothers at—and between—every extreme."" -Kirkus


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