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It's a Shame About Ray

Jonathan Seidler

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Allen & Unwin
05 October 2022

ABBEY'S BOOKSELLER PICK ----- The magic of simply wandering around a bookstore worked once again. The book's title (and a bold jacket) caught my eye. The title is taken from The Lemonheads hit-song and while the book is not about them or their music, it is about Ray - in this case, Ray Seidler, a doctor who was active around King's Cross as an advocate for better support and management for addiction-sufferers. Ray was also the nephew of architect Harry Seidler. Ray took his own life in 2013.

In an effort to understand this traumatic event, Ray's eldest son, Jonathan Seidler - music journo and copywriter - writes about the shock and the impact on himself, the family, his mother and the community. It's a lively style of writing (the Seidlers being a rambunctious bunch) presenting a picture of modern family life in the Jewish community of Sydney's Eastern Suburbs enclave. Mental health, mania and depression are examined through the lens of young manhood and the music that anchored the young Jonathan (a passion I share). Craig Kirchner

My dad, Ray, jabbed steroids into Beyoncé's butt when she lost her voice the day of her stadium show. My dad jumped into Sydney Harbour to save my brand-new red Power Ranger toy. My dad made his own jam, muesli and sourdough bread. My dad protected me from cockroaches, but he never, ever killed them. My dad once covered for so many of my demerit points that he lost his own licence and had to ride a bicycle to work for a year. My dad tended a worm farm in the compost bins in our back garden.

Blackly funny and frequently devastating, this memoir traverses family, death, hope, love, survival, compassion and the deep relationship we can develop with music throughout our lives when nothing else is enough. It's a Shame About Ray asks how we shape new identities from old tragedies - and whether the answers might be hiding in the bestselling record of 2001.

Several lifetimes in the making, Jonathan Seidler has created a lyrical and original interrogation of men and memories, a tracklist of songs of innocence and experience that beautifully unpick a life lived to the full - and sometimes spilling over the lip.

My dad ate the whole apple: core, pips and all.

'A brilliant and brutally raw tribute to family, survival and the indisputable profundity of noughties nu-metal.' TIM MINCHIN

'Unbelievably poignant and ingenious. And punk as f*ck.' MEGAN WASHINGTON

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Imprint:   Allen & Unwin
Country of Publication:   Australia
Dimensions:   Height: 234mm,  Width: 153mm, 
Weight:   324g
ISBN:   9781761068386
ISBN 10:   1761068385
Pages:   256
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Jonathan Seidler is a writer, creative and culture critic. His work has been published frequently in The Guardian, Sydney Morning Herald, The Australian, Monocle and GQ. Jonathan co-founded long-running music website One A Day, launched two nationally syndicated fiction series for Broadsheet and recently commissioned, edited and published an Unyoked anthology of nature writing. As a creative director, Jonathan produced nationally recognised pro bono campaigns for Keep Sydney Open, One Wave and the Equality Campaign. He is a regular guest on ABC Radio National's Download This Show, discussing media, culture and technology. He once played drums in bands, now mostly in his garage.

Reviews for It's a Shame About Ray

ABBEY'S BOOKSELLER PICK ----- The magic of simply wandering around a bookstore worked once again. The book's title (and a bold jacket) caught my eye. The title is taken from The Lemonheads hit-song and while the book is not about them or their music, it is about Ray - in this case, Ray Seidler, a doctor who was active around King's Cross as an advocate for better support and management for addiction-sufferers. Ray was also the nephew of architect Harry Seidler. Ray took his own life in 2013.

In an effort to understand this traumatic event, Ray's eldest son, Jonathan Seidler - music journo and copywriter - writes about the shock and the impact on himself, the family, his mother and the community. It's a lively style of writing (the Seidlers being a rambunctious bunch) presenting a picture of modern family life in the Jewish community of Sydney's Eastern Suburbs enclave. Mental health, mania and depression are examined through the lens of young manhood and the music that anchored the young Jonathan (a passion I share). Craig Kirchner


  • Long-listed for Best Designed Non-Fiction Cover 2023 (Australia)
  • Short-listed for Best Designed Non-Fiction Cover 2023 (Australia)

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