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How Old Are You Today?

Dementia, A Mother, A Daughter, and The Game That Transformed Their Lives

Glenna Hecht

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16 September 2025
How Old Are You Today?

Dementia, A Mother, A Daughter, and the Game That Transformed Their Lives

by Glenna Hecht

What if dementia didn't mean the end of connection... but the beginning of something deeper?

When Glenna Hecht's fiercely independent, whip-smart mother began slipping into the fog of dementia, their relationship changed overnight. So did Glenna's life. What followed was a raw, often heartbreaking journey of caregiving, grief, love, and surrender-filled with challenges no one prepares you for, and moments of unexpected joy.

How Old Are You Today? is a dementia love story-and a game that changed everything.

When dementia entered their world, Glenna didn't feel prepared. There was no manual for how to relate to a parent who no longer lived in linear time. Certifications, books, and support groups gave her information-but not connection.

Then one day, Glenna asked her mom a question:

""How old are you?""

Her mother smiled and replied, ""Guess.""

That unexpected moment became the spark for a new kind of connection. What started as a simple exchange turned into a daily ritual-a game they called How Old Are You Today?

It opened doors to memory, sparked stories, and became a bridge between the past and the present. And over time, it transformed everything.

Told with brutal honesty, sharp wit, and a deep well of compassion, this isn't a medical guide. It's a daughter's story-a front-row account of the emotional rollercoaster that comes with watching someone you love disappear piece by piece, and learning how to love them differently, fiercely, and fully.

Inside You'll Discover:

The ""How Old Are You Today?"" game - the one surprising question that opened doors to memory, laughter, and reconnection The Art of the Game - what it really looks like to keep showing up, even when dementia shifts the rules day by day The Rules of the Game - simple mechanics, real tips, and a roadmap for finding joy in the middle of the fog My journey through dementia - the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking truth - so you know you are not walking this path alone

This is not a story of triumph in the traditional sense. It's about showing up. Falling apart. Coming back. It's about letting go of who someone was and finding new ways to love who they are now.

For anyone navigating the complex realities of dementia-whether you're an adult child suddenly in the role of caregiver, a family member searching for connection, or someone supporting a parent with dementia-How Old Are You Today? is a companion, a mirror, and a source of comfort. It won't tidy the hard parts. It will give you language, a ritual, and proof that even in the hardest moments, connection is still possible.
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Imprint:   Hecht Publishing
Dimensions:   Height: 229mm,  Width: 152mm,  Spine: 9mm
Weight:   236g
ISBN:   9798999787118
Pages:   172
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Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Reviews for How Old Are You Today?: Dementia, A Mother, A Daughter, and The Game That Transformed Their Lives

What Readers Are Saying About How Old Are You Today ""Love 'the game' and the story."" Both of my parents had dementia and I read voraciously to understand how to deal with them. I also joined support groups. I got a few good ideas and I used my common sense. I didn't argue with them and I didn't take what they said to me personally. I would do things differently after reading Glenna's book. It should be required reading for all caregivers and facilities and those who work there and are visiting. The game is a wonderful communication tool that can be used in numerous situations where communication is impaired because of cognitive and or social reasons. It is poignant, informative, and I laughed out loud repeatedly. It is also a wonderful story about repairing relationships and getting to know your parents. It's filled with love and humor. ""I absolutely love this book."" It is moving, real, and heartfelt, and captures the challenges of having a loved one with dementia, while also being entertaining and full of love and life. The insight that Glenna Hecht came up with to connect with her mother is so beautiful, and I wish I had the strategy that this book provides when my own grandmother was suffering from dementia. She has passed away, but now I can't wait to share this book with others with family members going through this. ""Finally, someone says the hard stuff out loud."" No clichés. No perfect moments. Just the truth, told by someone who's clearly lived it. The game Glenna created is simple-but the impact is lasting. A must if you're navigating dementia up close. ""I read this book in one sitting. I could not put it down."" I laughed and cried and felt like I was right there with the author. I learned so much as well about dementia. This book is a must read for anyone with elderly parents going through this. It is a wonderful story showing that dementia does not have to be the end of your relationship with your loved ones. This book helps lead the way for dementia patients and their caregivers. ""A remarkable resource for caregivers."" I heard about this book more than a year ago, and I could not wait for it to be published. Glenna is a gifted author, and she shares her personal story with great love and empathy for everyone who is on the difficult journey as a friend, relative or caregiver of someone with dementia. I especially admire the way she turned what many would consider a burden into a true gift in the final years of her mother's life. ""How Old Are You Today?"" should be required reading for everyone working with those who are experiencing memory loss.


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