Grey Divorce

Praise for Grey Divorce: A Right to Mourn Ann Evans not only takes the reader on her journey of recovery but more importantly, shares with us her profound thoughts about spirituality, forgiveness, friendship (her angels), the legal nightmare, and retirement. She opens her heart so that we can understand at increasingly deeper levels how to make sense, move on, and rebuild a life no matter what it brings our way. A lesson we all need to learn. Vikki Stark, MSW, MFT, Author of the bestselling Runaway Husbands, The Abandoned Wife's Guide to Recovery and Renewal' Ann Evans' unique journey through abandonment by a life partner late in her life unfolds with candour and authenticity as she redefines her identities at this ""grey"" stage of life. Her deep spirituality and long-time experience as a psychotherapist and pastoral counsellor are reflected in the literature she deftly weaves throughout her book...What struck me deeply is Ann's tenacity to define her own journey-to not be straight- jacketed by societal norms regarding ""proper grieving"" timelines and expectations...Her indefatigable spirit kept me rooting for her throughout the memoir. Her actions-both tentative and bold-provide many concrete actions for others seeking healing paths forward through their own pain. Ann's story is a testament to this profound realization. Carol Rolheiser Professor Emerita, Department of Curriculum, Teaching and Learning, University of Toronto' This book is such a vulnerable expression of pain and loss that the reader cannot help but be gutted by it. Yet it's also a book of such hope, beauty, and the wisdom of a psychotherapist who has walked with many through their own pain. Both a guide to walking through grief and a profound personal story of courage, I will recommend this book as a source of hope to many of my clients. Brian Klassen M.Ed., R.C.C. Psychotherapist Ann's memoir is an unflinching account of her devastation after she is rejected by the man she has loved and adored through thirty years of marriage. She is an inspiration as she forges her own path to healing, drawing on a deep faith, her belief in the unconscious, and the loving support of her family and friends. Darlene Bamford, United Church of Canada minister and psychotherapist, retired To Learn More about Ann, please visit her website: https: //www.annevanspsychotherapist.com