Natasha Distiller is an associate professor of English at the University of Cape Town.
Informed by Freud's Oedipus complex, feminist psychoanalysis, and relational theory, this book explores the subjective possibilities and impossibilities of being a 'lesbian mother.' It does a fine job of discerning and critiquing the inevitable intersections of sex, gender, and sexuality; describing the dilemmas surrounding recognition as lesbian, mother, and lesbian mother; illustrating the roles of others and the impact of others' evaluations of lesbian co-parent family life; and highlighting the paradoxes of being a 'mother,' a 'lesbian,' and an 'other mother.' Summing Up: Highly recommended * CHOICE *