Tuck Malloy is a white, queer, non-binary, polyamorous sex educator. They live on un-ceded Ohlone land. They are a certified holistic sex educator with 5 years combined experience as a sex-educator and sex-toy expert. They have a background in global feminisms, sexual assault and domestic violence advocacy, and youth education. They create holistic workshops on relationships, sensuality, gender identity, BDSM & kink, desire, pleasure, and all the many kinds of sex humans have.
Tuck has written a book that shakes the table and holds accountable the way white people write and talk about sex and relationships. It's a great example of what a strategic use of power can produce when we divest in colonial legacies of supremacy. -- Bianca I Laureano, PhD, MA, CSE, CSES Sexologist, Sex Educator, Foundress ANTE UP! Professional Development and co-foundress of WOCSHN A marvelous, captivating, and accessible deep dive into relationship anarchy. With a rich blend of philosophical, historical, and practical insights, Malloy deftly guides readers in nurturing different forms of intimacy-whether platonic, romantic, sexual, etc. This book is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to cultivate deeper, more fulfilling, more expansive approach to relationships. A wonderful read that challenges conventions and inspires a nuanced and approachable understanding of love in all its forms. -- Lucie Fielding, PhD, LPC, LMHC The words in this book landed in me like the most intimate revolution. What a potent antidote to the systems of oppression that want to keep us disconnected from each other -- Che Che Luna, Queer trans chicanx, certified sex + pleasure educator, This book would be helpful to anyone regardless of relationship or orientation as it covers radical love from self-relationship, asexual spectrums, family and friend relationships, monogamous and anarchist relationships. We could all use these questions and check-ins to include more intentional and deep relationships in our lives. -- Netgalley Reviewer, Bookseller Whether you're in a monogamous, polyamorous, or any other type of relationship, the ideas in this book could be helpful and a great tool to improve your relationships. -- -NetGalley Reviewer