Don't Burn Your Own House Down: Prioritizing Your Marriage, Your Spouse, and Yourself for a Deeper Connection...

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Lindsey Maestas

Don't Burn Your Own House Down

Name: Don't Burn Your Own House Down
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ISBN: 9780310369479

Prioritizing Your Marriage, Your Spouse, and Yourself for a Deeper Connection

Lindsey Maestas

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Zondervan
09 April 2026

Christian life & practice; Christian aspects of sexuality, gender & relationships; Dating, relationships, living together & marriage

You didn't get married to feel like strangers in the same house.

Between the dishes, the doomscrolling, and the daily grind, the connection faded. You're not fighting, but you're not talking like you used to either, and you're tired of doing all the work. You've become more roommates than soulmates.

Most days are a blur of chores and checklists, and most nights end with you and your spouse in the same bed but worlds apart--backs turned, both scrolling through someone else's life instead of living your own. You often wonder, Is marriage supposed to feel like this?

Maybe nothing is falling apart, but it's still not what you pictured. Maybe you're growing, but your spouse isn't keeping pace. You're doing the work, carrying the load, and wondering why you're no longer seen. Friend, you're not alone. Around you, other couples are quietly unraveling too.

Don't Burn Your Own House Down isn't a ""pray harder and swallow your issues"" pep talk. It's a deeply honest, faith-rooted guide for couples who still want to want their marriages but keep missing the mark. Through a decade of relationship research and hard-won wisdom, Lindsey Maestas offers rare transparency, biblical truth, and practical tools to overcome modern distractions and rebuild playfulness, honesty, and deep connection.

In this helpful and healing book, you'll learn how to:

Fall in love with the person your spouse is today, instead of wishing for who they were at the altar Let your relationship with God become so rich and rooted that it transforms the way you show up in your marriage Balance emotional labor without resentment Create new habits and disciplines that help you support each other Build a home that feels safe, playful, and spiritually grounded, even on your worst days

Your marriage doesn't need to be perfect. It just needs two people willing to start again . . . together.

By: Lindsey Maestas
Imprint: Zondervan
Country of Publication: United States
Dimensions: Height: 211mm, Width: 134mm, Spine: 17mm
Weight: 240g
ISBN: 9780310369479
ISBN 10: 0310369479
Pages: 304
Publication Date: 09 April 2026
Audience: General/trade , ELT Advanced
Format: Paperback
Publisher's Status: Active

Lindsey Maestas is a writer and podcast host known for saying the hard things gently. Recognized as a renowned relationship expert, writer, speaker, and entrepreneur, she reaches millions globally. She has made her mark through her honest teaching style and widely acclaimed podcast, Living Easy with Lindsey, which has attracted a devoted audience of over three million listeners. The show blends emotional depth with real-life vulnerability, tackling everything from postpartum struggles and navigating difficult adult friendships to building stronger intimacy in marriage and studying the Bible with clarity. At the core of Lindsey’s impact is The Wife Project: From Roommates to Soulmates, a biblical marriage course that has helped tens of thousands of women worldwide create connection and find real purpose in their relationships. Through candid storytelling and biblically grounded wisdom, Lindsey helps her audience build relationships that feel safe and honest—not perfect. Her content is part pep talk, part tough love, and all heart, designed to make you stop settling for a life of “fine” because you were created for far more. Lindsey lives in Nashville, Tennessee, with her husband and two boys. She is a professional oversharer, loves to throw killer dinner parties, and would eat chips and guacamole for every meal if it were nutritionally acceptable. If you’re looking for someone who will challenge you, pray for you, and never pretend that life is prettier than it is, she’s your girl.