Befriending the North Wind

"Weaving insights from philosophy, theology, anthropology, developmental psychology, and pediatrics into a nuanced account of the moral agency of children, Robyn Boer� has authored a book of exceptional wisdom and sensitivity. In paying attention to what dying children actually say and do rather than forcing upon them the rickety bioethical principles of a society that fears death and worships autonomy, Boer� shows what children can teach adults about being interdependent creatures made in God's image. As a pediatrician and parent, I highly recommend Befriending the North Wind to anyone who cares about the moral and spiritual lives of children. --Brian Volck, MD, MFA, MAT, coauthor of Reclaiming the Body: Christians and the Faithful Use of Modern Medicine and author of Attending Others: A Doctor's Education in Bodies and Words I can think of no higher praise for Robyn Boer�'s Befriending the North Wind than to say it is a lovely book, not simply because of the effortlessness with which the author writes about the stories of George McDonald, but also because of the opportunity she affords readers to change the way they see and speak about life and death, not just of children but also of themselves. By drawing on the stories of Jesus and children in the Gospels and Saint Paul's use of familial metaphors to describe the relationship of the baptized to the triune God, Boer� makes the daring claim that ""childness is humanness."" Recognizing the moral agency of children opens the possibility of seeing them not simply as capable of shaping their own living and dying, but as exemplars of dying well. Insofar as the goal of Christian discipleship is to live as a child of God, she concludes, ""we should all die as children."" --Joel James Shuman, professor of theology, King's College, Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania"