An Honest Woman

One of the New York Times and New York Magazine/ Vulture's Most Anticipated Books of 2024 “A rigorous and compulsively readable memoir about her career as a sex worker and the possibilities of romantic love between men and women. Shane excavates her relationships with her father and the boys she grew up with, measuring the harm of inherited lessons about sex and the value of girls’ hotness against the power and freedom sex work later afforded her. This personal and professional investigation resonates and entices.” –New York Magazine “Shane’s unsparing honesty illuminates what it means for her to seek love, intimacy and relationships with these men under a cloud of misogyny.”—New York Times Book Review “A memoir of sex work that is also a poignant love story…. A corrective to incurious narratives in which sex work is assumed to be nothing but an unrelenting debasement…. In less than 200 pages, the book manages to be part autobiography, part anthropological investigation and part feminist tract — but centrally, it is a eulogy for Roger, who was Shane’s client for nearly a decade.”—BECCA ROTHFIELD, Washington Post “In compulsively readable, confessional prose, Shane probes her own experiences with desire, being desired, and the desire to be desired. She exposes the ways in which capitalism and patriarchy infect every union.”—Bustle “Astute in her social critiques, the author demonstrates her intuitive understanding of how people can build more fulfilling relationships with one another.... It's funny, authentic, and unequivocally honest. A graceful and candid look into sex, intimacy, misogyny, and identity.” –Kirkus  “Refreshingly, Shane depicts the good of sex work (its liberatory potential, for example) as thoroughly as the bad (its occasional reinforcement of patriarchal structures). This slim volume packs a punch.”—Publishers Weekly  “Shane is an erudite writer, funny and disarming, and her memoir holds space for all of the dualities of love and sex work.” —Booklist “A refreshingly candid and provocative think piece — one that questions the blurry boundaries of attachment when it comes to pleasure, the complicated nature of intimacy, and the murkiness of feelings surrounding who and how we love.” —San Francisco Chronicle  “An Honest Woman fulfills its promise as a memoir about love, lust, and labor—but it’s also a meditation on what it means to truly care for and try to understand each other despite oppressive social and cultural forces.” –Dirt  “Through spare prose and dazzling reflections on Britney Spears and the troubles of girlhood, Shane breaks down the tidy dichotomy of the personal and political.” –Cultured  “Shane seems to be an honest woman, bringing a sense of principled curiosity to the page regardless of her subject matter. Her memoir... is in many ways a love letter to men. It is an inquiry into desirability and an earnest examination of heterosexuality.” –Interview Magazine “With An Honest Woman, Charlotte Shane's already-formidable clarity and grace as a critic and essayist are here turned so honestly, so ruthlessly to an examination of womanhood—of how women make ourselves known to ourselves and to each other under patriarchy. She is one of the very, very few writers I want to read writing about our lives with straight men.” —MELISSA GIRA GRANT, author of Playing the Whore: The Work of Sex Work and staff writer at The New Republic “The first book I’ve burned through in a single sitting in months. Elegant, candid, merciless and moving—it’s an experience to make a reader reconsider how love works.”—TORREY PETERS, author of Detransition, Baby “I'm in love with Charlotte Shane's writing here, full as it is of clarity, earned beauty, and a deep intelligence at once cerebral and embodied, tender and brutal. I inhaled this book.” —SARAH THANKAM MATTHEWS, author of All This Could Be Different