Ellen L.K. Toronto is in private practice in Ann Arbor, Michigan. She is co-editor of Psychoanalytic Reflections on a Gender-free Case: Into the Void (Routledge, 2005), the author of Family Entanglement (CreateSpace 2013) and writes a weekly parenting blog for PsychCentral. JoAnn Ponder, PhD is a psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in Austin, Texas. Kristin Davisson, PsyD is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Chicago. Maurine Kelber Kelly PhD, FIPA is a Training and Supervising Analyst with the Contemporary Freudian Society and served as adjunct faculty in the PsyD program at The George Washington University.
Written by psychoanalytic scholars, researchers and clinicians, the publication presents a transformative multidimensional view of women's experience in a cultural context of a patriarchal society. In exploring dynamics of complex interactivity of biological, cultural and intropsychic factors, psychoanalytic theory is used to conceptualize the issues, as well as to offer novel ways to address them. By putting the inseparatble link between the functioning female body and female psychological development at the center, the book takes the conversation on femininity and female development as primary to another level, towards true internal and external emancipation. -Eva D. Papiasvili, PhD, ABPP, Co-Chair for North America of the International Psychoanalytical Association's Encyclopedic Dictionary of Psychoanalysis Task Force. This is a unique, important, and powerful book which has provided these authors with a unique platform from which to speak and be heard. The title calls our attention to and plays on Virginia Woolf's 1928 classic A Room of One's Own, which was a call to action for women writers to acknowledge and free themselves from the dominance of men in the literary world. As in this book, Woolf was critiquing the difference between the idealized position of women as objects and their experience of being silenced as subjects. This book takes Virginia Wolf's call for action to important new psychological levels, not centering the conversation in the usual abstract postmodern discourse, but speaking directly from women's bodies, their womb, their sexuality, and their ever present consciousness of rape as a crushing act of personal and political power. As a man, I did not feel talked down to but rather included in difficult and painful conversations including: choosing to become a mother or not; struggles with infertility; adoption; hooking up; and finding personal and communal voices through which to speak after being crushed and silenced by rape. I was quite moved by this book and began looking at women and their experience from a different, more truly egalitarian perspective. I enthusiastically recommend this book to woman who will feel affirmed, recognized and empowered, and to men who will have a deeper appreciation for woman as full subjects rather than simply as idealized mothers or fantasy sexual beings. -Joseph Newirth, Derner Institute of Advanced Psychological Studies, Adelphi University and former Director, Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy, NYU; author of Between Emotion and Cogniiton: The Generative Unconscious.