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Lonely Women Make Good Lovers

Keetje Kuipers

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English
BOA Editions, Limited
16 July 2025
The daring and deeplysexy poems inLonely Women Make Good Loversare bold with theembodied, earthy, and startlingly sensual.

Theseunforgettable love poems-queer, complicated, and almost alwayscompromised-engage a poetics of humility, leaning into the painful tendernessesof unbridgeable distance. As Kuipers writes, love is a question ""defined not bywhat we / cannot know of the world but what we cannot know of ourselves."" Thesepoems write into that intricate webbing between us, holding space for an ""I""that is permeable, that can be touched and changed by those we make our liveswith.

Inthis book, astonishingly intimate poems of marriage collide with thefetishization of freedom and the terror of desire. At times valiant and atothers self-excoriating, they are flush with the hard-won knowledge of thedifficulties and joys of living in relation.
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Imprint:   BOA Editions, Limited
Country of Publication:   United States [Currently unable to ship to USA: see Shipping Info]
Dimensions:   Height: 203mm,  Width: 152mm, 
ISBN:   9781960145451
ISBN 10:   1960145452
Pages:   70
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
With Garbo in Palm Springs At Forty, the Mountains Are More Green Lonely women make good lovers, Getting Back Together The Magician at the Woodpile Bleeding At My Daughter’s Riding Lesson Spa Days I Didn’t Know What I Didn’t Know In the Outdoor Shower with My Pregnant Wife Cremello Horse I wasn’t trying to steal her boyfriend, Sehnsucht Poikilothermic Love Letter to a Friend I Cannot Reach I, too, took pictures of my body Brace Cove Emesis I Let Her Let Them The day after your mom dies, I go to see the witches, The Wound Boat Puller / Bird Woman / Madame Charbonneau Walking Lessons Pregnant Girl Creek Washing My Daughter’s Clothes Selfishness My Mother Bought Me a Scarf Interview Crossing Live Webcam: Ponte delle Guglie, Venice; March 2020 Multi-Generational Household Eating Sea Urchin At Our Hotel Under the Volcano Meat Summer, Again Season Finale 3,000 Miles Away from Home Diapause Eating an Orange Before Getting Out of the Swimming Pool Googling My Ex Greek Chorus The Rats Now that we’ve been married all these years, Polished Rough

KeetjeKuipers is the author of four books of poems, all from BOAEditions:Beautiful in the Mouth(2010);The Keys to the Jail(2014);All Its Charms(2019); and Lonely Women Make Good Lovers (2025).Keetje's poetry and prose haveappeared inThe New York Timesand over a hundred other magazines. Keetje iscurrently the Editor ofPoetry Northwest, and teachesat universities and conferences around the world, including at the dual-language writers' gathering Under the Volcanoin Tepoztln, Mexico. Her home is in Missoula, Montana, at the foot of the RattlesnakeWilderness. She lives there with her wife and their two children.

Reviews for Lonely Women Make Good Lovers

“Who are ‘the bodies/ within that body’? How does romantic love bring us together-- or isolate, or confound? What if there's a baby on the way? What if we come to each other naked as birds in flight, as stripped logs, as old photographs, as pure ideas? What does a grown-up, clear, thoughtful, emotionally available, gifted lesbian poet get when-- decades after Adrienne Rich-- she comes up, still wearing her tanks, and takes her mask off, after the proverbial wreck, and makes ‘a pact with the world,’ with her wife, with their earth and air? Gentle reader, ‘gentle witches,’ webcam watchers who remember the quarantine months and years, mothers and other parents who remember our biggest children's smallest hours, realists who want something more, collectors of words like ‘poikilothermic’ and ‘diapause’ who wonder if we can ‘finally become different people,’ lovers of ordinary conversational language, doomed scorpions, pet rats, treehouses made new: this poet is your poet. Here are your poems.”—Stephanie Burt, author of We Are Mermaids and Professor of English at Harvard University “Keetje Kuipers’ Lonely Women Make Good Lovers is a staggering, unpredictable, and inexorable collection. Caught in the nexus of hunger and ruin, Kuipers’ speaker explores the atmosphere between what she knows or almost knows and what cannot be explained. Recognition of the self, of others, Kuipers shows us, is a practice. A compelling read, these poems are nimble and vulnerable, mapping a return to the self, a return to longing, a return to the archive of what the body remembers.”— Donika Kelly, Kate Tufts Discovery Award-winner and author of The Renunciations   “Keetje Kuipers’s poems are daring, formally beautiful, and driven by rich imagery and startling ideas.”—Tracy K. Smith, U.S. Poet Laureate, author of Wade in the Water


  • Winner of Isabella Gardner Poetry Award 2024 (United States)
  • Winner of Isabella Gardner Poetry Award 2024 (United States)

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