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The Way She Feels

My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces

Courtney Cook

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English
Zando
29 June 2021
Finalist for the 2022 Lammy Award for Bisexual & the 2022 Heartland Booksellers Award

A Book Riot Best Book of the Year

""Audaciously human and raw. The Way She Feels is a rainbow during the rain."" ―Mara Altman

A witty and one-of-a-kind debut graphic memoir detailing and drawing the life of a girl with borderline personality disorder finding her way―and herself―one day at a time.

What does it feel like to fall in love too hard and too fast, to hate yourself in equal and opposite measure? To live in such fear of rejection that you drive friends and lovers away? Welcome to my world. I'm Courtney, and I have borderline personality disorder (BPD), along with over four million other people in the United States. Though I've shown every classic symptom of the disorder since childhood, I wasn't properly diagnosed until nearly a decade later, because the prevailing theory is that most people simply ""grow out of it."" Not me.

In my illustrated memoir, The Way She Feels- My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces, I share what it's been like to live and love with this disorder. Not just the hospitalizations, treatments, and residential therapy, but the moments I found comfort in cereal, the color pink, or mini corndogs; the days I couldn't style my hair because I thought the blow-dryer was going to hurt me; the peace I found when someone I love held me. This is a book about vulnerability, honesty, acceptance, and how to speak openly-not only with doctors, co-patients, friends, family, or partners, but also with ourselves.
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Imprint:   Zando
Country of Publication:   United States
Dimensions:   Height: 217mm,  Width: 168mm,  Spine: 15mm
Weight:   454g
ISBN:   9781951142599
ISBN 10:   1951142594
Pages:   250
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Courtney Cookis a writer, illustrator, teacher, and lover of naps. Courtney received an undergraduate degree from the University of Michigan and an MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of California, Riverside. She grew up in Winnetka, Illinois, and now resides in Chicago with her cat, Bertie.

Reviews for The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces

""A tender, relatable book from a commanding new voice.""—Bustle ""Candid.... depicts [mental health issues] with humor and vulnerability.""—Publishers Weekly ""Candid and endearing. . . . In addition to a moving personal story, Cook provides a funny, heartfelt guide to borderline personality disorder and a distillation of adolescent tortures many readers will recognize. A poignant debut from a promising writer and illustrator.""—Kirkus, Starred Review ""The Way She Feels is a lifeline to anyone who’s ever felt alone."" —Piper Weiss, author of You All Grow Up and Leave Me ""Audaciously human and raw. The Way She Feels is a rainbow during the rain."" —Mara Altman, author of Gross Anatomy ""Moving.... [Cook's] work makes the disorder a little less scary, taboo, and misunderstood. She writes candidly about her experiences with self-harm, dermatillomania (obsessive skin-picking), and numerous hospitalizations in an astounding way that feels like reading a friend’s diary. In fact, it often feels like she was one of my friends in high school. The book is raw, but also full of humor, heart, and oh so many bright colors.""—Book Riot ""A brave unveiling of the reality of borderline personality disorder.""—Paperback Paris ""Pack[s] a powerful emotional punch.""—Early Bird Books, 10 Mental Health Memoirs From Writers Who Have Been There ""Informative and necessary.""—New Letters ""A smart, funny graphic memoir about living with BPD.""—Marbles Magazine ""A brutally honest look at living with mental illness. Very relatable (and reassuring) for those of us who’ve been/are there."" —School Library Journal


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