Leaves Falling Gently

“Leaves Falling Gently is a beautifully composed field guide to living fully, even in the face of serious illness. This book uniquely braids together wisdom threads from Susan Bauer-Wu’s remarkable professional and personal paths, which include frontline palliative care nursing, pioneering mind-body integrative oncology research, decades of practicing and teaching mindfulness meditation, and leading international transdisciplinary dialogues bridging contemplative practices and global health. Emanating from her warm heart and down-to-earth voice, Susan offers practical, clear, and actionable tools not only for individuals facing illness and their caregivers but for every one of us who knows that the arc of our lives will likely encounter existential health challenges that can serve as catalysts for growth, resilience, and becoming more human. This is a book I plan to share widely with my family, friends, and colleagues.” —Peter M. Wayne, PhD, director of Osher Center for Integrative Health, Brigham and Women’s Hospital & Harvard Medical School and author of The Harvard Medical School Guide to Tai Chi   “A friendly introduction to a way of being that can literally and metaphorically give your life back to you.” —Jon Kabat-Zinn, author of Full Catastrophe Living   “Leaves Falling Gently beautifully combines the wisdom of reflection, the rigor of science, and the beauty of a deeply engaged heart. Susan Bauer-Wu guides readers to live fully and gracefully with serious illness. With gentle clarity, this book offers a wealth of ideas and practices illuminating a way of being that has the power to transform our individual and collective lives.” —Shauna L. Shapiro, PhD, associate professor of counseling psychology at Santa Clara University and coauthor of The Art and Science of Mindfulness   “Susan Bauer-Wu describes how to live fully rather than withdrawing and feeling dread and despair when faced with a life-limiting illness. Leaves Falling Gently empowers readers to achieve peace of mind through mindfulness meditation and gain control over their feelings and relationships. This is a must-read for those individuals confronted with chronic, life-threatening diseases and their families.” —David S. Rosenthal, MD, professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School and past president of the American Cancer Society “A powerful book! Susan Bauer-Wu has attacked the problems of life and death. Her book gives concrete solutions to patients and loved ones who need advice. It is an essential book for the living who may be dying. A must-read.” —Zorba Paster, MD, host of On Your Health on Public Radio International “Leaves Falling Gently offers a direct, compelling, and practical guide to living fully even when facing serious illness. It can help us help our friends and family in the times when we so rarely know how to respond.” —Sharon Salzberg, author of Real Happiness and Lovingkindness “Susan Bauer-Wu’s book Leaves Falling Gently is the most accessible, loving and practical introduction to mindful awareness, compassion, healing and wholeness that I have ever seen. It is a precious gift for anyone who faces (or will face) life-limiting illness and death. She shows us how conditions of illness and dying, often experienced as profoundly limiting, point us to hidden wellsprings of kindness, empathy, gratitude and forgiveness beyond limits. Right through the particulars of our feelings, emotions, and reactions to illness and dying, she brings us home to the deep safety, compassion, and wholeness in the very ground of our being.” —John Makransky, professor of Buddhism and comparative theology at Boston College   “Susan Bauer-Wu writes with the precision of a scientist, vision of a scholar, and pragmatism of someone who cares for others professionally and personally. In Leaves Falling Gently, she has distilled the wisdom of generations of teachers and global traditions into a practical, actionable guide for being well through the most difficult times in human life. Leaves Falling Gently is simple and unpretentious, yet profound. It is, quite simply, a guide to living honestly, fully, soulfully, and joyfully through even the hardest of times. What a gift! Leaves Falling Gently is a treasure—one to be savored and shared.” —Ira Byock, MD, palliative care physician, professor at Dartmouth Medical School, and author of Dying Well and The Four Things That Matter Most “This important book offers insight and inspiration for all who seek to live life fully, even in the midst of challenges beyond your control. Research, experience, and personal practice blend together to illuminate a unique approach, and Susan’s writing is clearly helpful in connecting us with what matters most.” —Ben Campbell Johnson, PhD Professor Emeritus, Columbia Theological Seminary and author of Companions in Contemplation: Reflections on the Contemplative Path “Leaves Falling Gently is simply a magnificent guide for all of us on how to stay fully alive even as we approach the inevitable moment of our death. Written with a poet’s eye for incisive clarity and a clinician’s heart for compassionate care, this treasure of a book is a gift for us all. Whether the timing of our life’s ending remains uncertain or the onset of illness has made clear our journey’s end, Susan Bauer-Wu’s clear and loving words provide life-affirming wisdom that will greatly aid the lives of caregivers and care receivers alike. Soak in these transformative words and your life will be greatly enriched, wherever you are in your journey.” —Daniel J. Siegel, MD, executive director of the Mindsight Institute, clinical professor at the University of California, Los Angeles School of Medicine, and author of Mindsight and The Mindful Therapist “In her beautiful book, Leaves Falling Gently, Susan Bauer-Wu offers us the possibility and the means of finding a true place of peace amid the storms of serious and life-limiting illness. She encourages each of us—and we will all face ""life-limiting illness"" eventually—to learn to live fully through mindfulness, compassion, and connectedness, and to discover a sense of ease and possibility embedded within the challenging landscapes associated with life-limiting or catastrophic illness. I think readers will find this book to be a treasure and a comfort, and I recommend it wholeheartedly.” —Jeffrey Brantley, MD, DFAPA, founder and director of the mindfulness-based stress reduction program at Duke Integrative Medicine and author of Calming Your Anxious Mind