Mom Still Likes You Best

Isay explores the unknown territory of adult sibling relationships both the best and the worst of them. Her keen observations of adult brothers and sisters and her fresh and profound ideas about this terra incognita give readers an opportunity to laugh, cry, identify, and, ultimately, to love their siblings more deeply. Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving Ophelia Siblings enrich our lives in so many ways but they can also get under our skin like no one else can. Jane Isay investigate[s] what makes these relationships work and why they sometimes blow up in your face. Allison Keyes, Tell Me More (NPR) Here is human understanding offered by a wise and thoughtful and clinically savvy writer who helps us take notice of how we get on with one another as boys and girls, brothers and sisters a Tolstoyan observer, with keen intuition and a compelling command of the art of storytelling, helps us readers look back, look inward, and thereby understand how we become who we are. Robert Coles, M.D., professor of psychiatry and medical humanities at Harvard Medical School and author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning book seriesChildren of Crisis Isay observes sibling dynamics with a psychologist s eye while forgiving transgressions between brothers and sisters with a mother s heart. Ira Byock, M.D., Professor, Dartmouth Medical School and author of Dying Well If you have a sibling, you'll see yourself in this inspiring book. Isay's observations are keen enough to make you see your mistakes, kind enough to let you forgive yourself, and hopeful enough to make you want to put the book down and call your sib right away. Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out and The Curse of the Good Girl Jane Isay's lively exploration of the sibling relationship in all of its complicated varieties is both incisive and benevolent, offering the reader new ways of understanding, repairing, and sometimes even transforming this profoundly important human connection. Judith Viorst, author of I m Too Young to Be Seventy and Other Delusions Finally, a long overdue mapping ofsibling relationships across the life span and how the passionatealliances and painful competitions of early childhood shape our adulthood. Of special interest are the changes that occur when siblings marry and later, when siblings gather to support their aging parents. A lively and revealing account ofintimate family lifewhichtouches us all. Highly recommended. Judith Wallerstein Ph.D., family researcher and author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce This is a very thoughtful and helpful book, one enhanced by anecdotes and images but offering no easy answer. There is much to savor here. Library Journal