Winning Your High-Conflict Divorce

In her groundbreaking book Loomus combines her mental health, legal background, and personal experiences offering important strategies to divorcing parents. Ms. Loomus specifically targets the experience of parents divorcing whereby one parent suffers from a personality disorder and the legal approach to has to be different from what is traditionally believed to be helpful to divorcing couples. Loomus provides a comprehensive explanation with attention to detail and rich case examples to prove her points. She offers a step by step description of each phase of the divorcing process and anticipates every possible challenge that may be faced. Ms. Loomus shares valuable strategies, advise, and tips throughout her book. I highly recommend this knowledgeable, thought-provoking, helpful, and realistic book. The reader will not only be well-informed, but left with a sense of hope and optimism. Toni P. Kaplan, Ph.D. I went through a very high conflict divorce involving a multitude of challenges. I turned to Loomus for advice and to help provide understanding and direction. With her dual background in social work and law, she was able to share professional knowledge and sound advice with warmth and understanding. I will always be grateful to her for providing both clarity and compassion, which I found to be tremendously helpful. Shoshana Rubenstein ACSW Winning Your High-Conflict Divorce is a must-read for anyone wading through a challenging, messy divorce. Its explanations of the divorce process and practical advice for strategizing and coping will be invaluable to anyone struggling through the painful and emotionally- scarring process of divorce. Loomus is an exceptional lawyer, therapist, and human being. She has written a practical, informative guide, featuring anecdotes, explanations of the legal process, and tools for strategizing, Winning Your High-Conflict Divorce provides a wealth of wisdom and useful information that will be invaluable for anyone experiencing the painful trials of high-conflict divorce. Andrea Nitzkin, LMSW. Divorce under most circumstances is difficult. It is a nightmare when one spouse thrives on conflict. Loomus has written a wise, compassionate, brave and practical guide to surviving these painful situations with one's finances, relationships with children, and dignity intact. I highly recommend her book to anyone facing the challenge of a combative divorce and to any professional who helps them. Rabbi Aaron Bergman