In 2017, Renee McBryde published her memoir, The House of Lies, in which she describes learning that she was daughter of a convicted murderer - a secret she was made to keep by her mother, shrouding her childhood and early adulthood.
In Unravelling Us, Renee delves into the most important relationship in her life - her mother - who gave birth to Renee when she was barely 16 and living on the streets. Renee hopes that by doing this, she can heal the pain of her own turbulent childhood. But the pent-up misery seeps its way into Renee's life as her mum escapes into alcohol and the party life, unwittingly exposing Renee to a repetition of her own early life of neglect and abandonment.
As a grown woman and child protection worker in Alice Springs, Renee is confronted with different mothering styles on a daily basis, which strengthens her resolve to break the cycle of abandonment and neglect that she herself suffered. She ponders the question: is it her father's murders that she needs to run from? Or is it the parenting trauma that has been drowning her family, generation after generation?
And now that she is a mother herself, is it possible to stop that cycle affecting her own children? Trying to reconcile her determination to forge her own path as a mother, while being surrounded by echoes of her troubled past and obligations as a daughter to an increasingly fragile mother, is almost impossible. And then the unthinkable happens...
Unravelling Us is a rare account that combines a gripping, page-turning story with an examination of what it means to be a 'good' mother against the backdrop of the one of the deepest and most chronic issues that affects Australia today - Indigenous child welfare.
Renee McBryde is a writer, social worker and mother of four young children. For more than 20 years, she has worked with children and families in the community services sector, her passion being trauma-informed practice and healing to bring about change. Renee lives in Alice Springs.
By:
Renee McBryde Imprint: BAD APPLE PRESS Country of Publication: Australia Dimensions:
Height: 234mm,
Width: 153mm,
ISBN:9780645265101 ISBN 10: 0645265101 Publication Date:01 May 2022 Audience:
General/trade
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ELT Advanced
Format:Paperback Publisher's Status: Unspecified
