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Lanterns in the Dark

A Holistic Guide to Navigating Special Education Without Losing Your Sanity

Rebe Goebel

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Freya
21 April 2026
Stop Just Surviving the System and Start Leading Your Child's IEP TeamAre you overwhelmed by the complexities of special education? Do you feel like you're fighting an uphill battle with the school district while your own mental and physical health takes a backseat?

When Rebe Goebel walked into her son's first evaluation meeting, she expected things to be easy. Instead, she found a bureaucratic maze that left her feeling completely lost in the dark. Drawing on her background as an Air Force officer, corporate negotiator, and somatic coach, Rebe developed a transformative approach to advocacy that balances tactical strategy with prioritizing the parent's nervous system resilience.

The Practical Map for the Special Education JourneyLanterns in the Dark is more than just a guide to the process; it is a holistic blueprint for the modern special needs parent. Whether your child has a diagnosis of Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia, or other developmental disorders, this book provides the ""insider knowledge"" you need to navigate IEPs and 504 Plans with confidence.

Inside this comprehensive guide, you will discover how to:

Master the IEP Process:

Navigate the special education system and federal regulations with the knowledge of a seasoned advocate. Negotiate with Authority:

Use proven leadership and communication techniques to build collaborative partnerships with school administrators-even in adversarial situations. Somatic Tools for Advocacy:

Shift out of ""Survival Mode"" using brief, but effective trauma-informed tools and practices to stay calm during high-stakes meetings and intense situations at home. End Caregiver Burnout:

Move from constant depletion to a sustainable model of care that protects your health as much as your child's future.

What Experts Are Saying""Rebe's special sauce is her ability to balance practical advice with an internal mindfulness component... What sets Rebe apart is the range of her experiences, training, and abilities."" - Dawn Raffel, Magazine Editor and AuthorStop ""Figuring It Out"" AloneYour child needs a parent who can manage every aspect of their special needs with grounded leadership and insider knowledge. Don't let your family's future be determined by a system you don't understand.

Move from exhaustion to clarity. Let Lanterns in the Dark be the light that guides your next step.
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Imprint:   Freya
Dimensions:   Height: 229mm,  Width: 152mm,  Spine: 12mm
Weight:   308g
ISBN:   9798995001188
Pages:   228
Publication Date:  
Audience:   General/trade ,  ELT Advanced
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active

Rebe Goebel is the mama of kiddos with special needs, just like you. She is also a trauma-informed Parent Advocacy Coach who specializes in helping parents navigate the special education system without sacrificing their own physical and mental health. Her approach is rooted in the belief that effective advocacy requires a strategic knowledge of the system, strong leadership skills, and-most importantly-a grounded nervous system as the foundation.Rebe's journey began over a decade ago when her first foray into special education ended in what she describes as a ""shocking disaster"". Realizing her son couldn't afford for her to be a passive participant, she drew on her experience as an Air Force officer and a corporate contract negotiator to secure the support he needed. This experience led to a pivotal realization: a parent's nervous system sets the tone for every interaction, from the living room to the IEP table.Today, Rebe leverages decades of leadership experience, along with certifications in somatic work, including trauma-informed breathwork and Reiki energy healing. She graduated Summa Cum Laude from the University of Missouri, where she met her husband, Alex.When she isn't lighting lanterns for other mamas, Rebe can be found in the St. Louis area cheering on her two teenage sons at wrestling matches and lacrosse games. In her quieter moments, she is often found with a mug of tea and a good book. An avid traveler, she is happiest with her toes in the surf.To explore Rebe's current offerings, including coaching packages, workshops, and courses, visit her online at www.rebegoebel.com or on Instagram @rebegoebel. Note: Rebe sounds like ""Debbie"" with an ""r"".

Reviews for Lanterns in the Dark: A Holistic Guide to Navigating Special Education Without Losing Your Sanity

""Rebe's special sauce is her ability to balance practical advice with an internal mindfulness component... What sets Rebe apart is the range of her experiences, training, and abilities."" - Dawn Raffel, Magazine Editor and Author


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