I'm Supposed to Protect You from All This

'Spiegelman's narrative complicates, blurs, and questions the line between the self and the other-that basic fault-line of all autobiographical writing-as perhaps only a story about mothers can.' Elif Batuman, author of The Possessed 'Spiegelman's sagely poetic memoir is maybe best described as the biography of a mother seen through the eyes of a daughter...[Her] intimate portrait of female identity and idolatry is intelligent, forthright and heartbreaking. Her sentences will haunt me forever.' -- Heidi Julavits 'Nadja Spiegelman's I'm Supposed to Protect You from All This works like a series of Russian nesting dolls: in every mother, she finds a woman who was once a daughter. Her prose is luminous and precise; her portraits intricately tender but charged by the wild electricity of familial love. I felt myself moved and expanded as I read this thoughtful, probing book-and I called my own mother the moment I was done.' -- Leslie Jamison, author of The Empathy Exams 'Nadja Spiegelman has written a passionate, penetrating, swiftly paced memoir about her mother, her grandmother, and herself. In sharp contrast to many writers working in the genre, who naively assume they are in possession of the definitive, true version of their stories, Spiegelman nimbly interrogates the workings of memory itself-its shifting shape and unreliability, its fictional character. I am proud to play a bit part in this complex love story about three generations of women and what each of them remembers.' -- Siri Hustvedt, author of The Blazing World 'Spiegelman's prose is witty, tender, assured and poetic, and her investigation progresses like memory itself, a realm in which nothing quite hangs together but everything makes sense. The unexpected symmetries between the generations, as well as the inevitable insults and pains, make this artful memoir feel like the story of every family.' -- Sheila Heti, author of How Should a Person Be? 'A fascinating, gracefully written glimpse into the complexities of family life.' Kirkus Reviews 'This stunning memoir of mothers and daughters blew me away with its beauty and honesty. At once unflinching in its exploration of maternal cruelty and unabashed about the wonders of a mother's love, it manages to capture the complexity of that bond like nothing else I've ever read. An extraordinary achievement.' -- J. Courtney Sullivan, author of The Engagements 'Stunning and artistic...touching, surprising consideration of the unclear inheritances of family, and the certain fallibility of memory. Thanks to the literary time travel her exercise affords, Spiegelman sees her subjects, and herself, in a way she never otherwise could have. In the process, she learns and writes page-turning true stories of women, their work and love, which read like novels, and gains the rare sort of understanding that precludes the need for forgiveness.' STARRED Review, Booklist 'Spiegelman writes candidly and beautifully about the complex relationship between mothers and daughters.' PureWow 'Spiegelman takes on the onerous task of picking at the narrative threads of her mother's adolescence and unravelling it to find the truth. The result is this memoir, which is a beautiful thing. A word to the wise: your inclination will be to read this as fast as possible, but take your time. The language and the story both deserve your patience.' Frisky 'Spiegelman deftly narrates her mother's life, as well as her childhood, and explores the ways we idolize and finally come to understand the women who shape us. A beautiful, insightful read.' Travel and Leisure 'Passionate, penetrating.' -- Siri Hustvedt